You know what happens when you throw a saying like that out into the actual universe? Something happens that actually makes you humble. And when I say “you” I mean ME.
It all started in back in August. I decided that it was time to branch out – time for an adventure. I had visited the Dallas area a couple of times before hand and I loved it, aside from the crazy traffic of course. This place had everything; Great food, fun activities and that one girl. I was going to take the plunge.
August 5th, 2013 – Give four-week notice to employer
I had decided to do it for sure on August 1st, but my boss was out of the office the following day, so Monday it was. After handing over the letter of resignation a great weight was lifted off me. I’m a nervous guy, and there’s not much that can make you more nervous than having a secret that you can’t tell anyone, yet. It was great afterward though. Many thanks were given and recommendations were offered. Those bridges are still standing firm, and I very much like that.
August 30th, 2013 – My last day at work
Not much happened. It was a Friday and many people came in to see me on the days before to say goodbye. This was a Friday so many of my buddies were out that day, but everything went okay regardless. The Office Manager came into my office at 10:00 a.m. and told me that they were taking me out to lunch. The owner was there and he paid for everyone’s meals. He hadn’t talked to me much, but seemed sincere when saying that there was a place for me if I decided to come back. Lunch was good; Half pound, homemade cheeseburger with sweet potato fries good.
September 13th, 2013 – My money comes in
When I quit I decided to cash out my 401K, because I’m not the brightest, and how else was I going to fund this adventure? I spent the preceding days searching for potential jobs, which mostly led to me playing around on the internet all day accomplishing squat. I had plenty of time to write but no life experiences to motivate me. I spent a lot of time with the Missionaries.
September 20th, 2013 – I head to Texas for my first round of job hunts
I decided to start out at a previous employer in New Braunfels, TX. He was gracious in talking with me and even let me stay at his house for a night. The following Thursday I watched his son’s varsity football team kill on the field. I think it was 47 to 3 or something like that. I headed back to Dallas the next day. We went to the State Fair and sampled many of fried food. It was almost all too gross. The homemade, ice-cold root beer was wonderful though. I actually got on some rides. It was a good time.
October 24th, 2013 – I head to Austin, by way of Dallas, for Blogger Interactive
I can’t say enough how great this event was. I met some people who I already knew were wonderful and I met some brand new wonderful people. The event last through Sunday and we head back to Dallas on Tuesday (I think). I spend the next week delivering resumes all around town, even catching an interview right off that bat. This has me excited for the move. I can’t wait to get down here permanently. I don’t get the job, but my hopes are still up. This is going to be great.
November 16th, 2013 – I pack everything into a U-Haul and head to Dallas
I still have plenty of money to get started. I’m feeling good. I have a recruiter who likes me and wants to help me succeed. I’m hopeful that the interviews are going to start anytime now. Then, an ice storm hits. This causes me to miss about four days of job seeking. This also causes the recruiter to become ill, missing several days at work. I’m really feeling the pressure to get a job, and now. The holidays are right around the corner too. The recruiter tells me that he will be out of the office for most of those two weeks. I don’t expect anything to happen until after the first of the year, so I go home for a surprise visit.
December 20th, 2013 – I drive home to surprise my family
I hadn’t planned on doing this, but without a reason not to I decided to go ahead and visit. Mom is getting ready to move out of State and Dad is home alone with the terror known as Founder. I call Mom about thirty minutes outside of home town to see if she’s around. We chat and she asks “You’re not coming home, right?” I have to spill the beans, making her day. I show up at Dads and walk right in. He says “Hey, how’s it going? You’re a little early.” He’s surprised but doesn’t show it. I spend the next two weeks catching up with old friends and hanging out with the Missionaries some more. While I’m there I apply to several jobs online. I’m perfect for a lot of these jobs and feel great about the possibility of them calling me in for an interview. I’m still hopeful.
January 4th, 2014 – I drive back home (Dallas) to continue my job search
I’m still feeling pretty good, but the money is starting to dwindle. The first few days I’m back I hardly hear anything. I’m starting to become very discouraged, and a little emotional, until I receive a phone call from a staffing agency for a potential job offer. She explains that it’s manual labor, for little money, but lots of overtime to make up for it. I pass and thank her for the opportunity. That morning I had also received an e-mail for a potential “marketing job”. This job ended up being a scam so I call the staffing agency back and tell them I’m in. I go to their office and feel out all the paper work, take all the tests (including the drug test) and get set up with an interview. I go to the shop and wait outside the front door, ringing the doorbell because it’s locked. I’m finally let in and the boss comes to greet me. My résumé is very good. “Are you sure you can’t find a job in the office somewhere?” He doesn’t want to hire me, and I understand. He needs permanent workers. I cannot offer him that.
January 10th, 2014 – I’m done
After the interview is over I decide that I’m not going to make it. I’m an emotional wreck the whole thirty minute drive back home. I text the roommate and apologize for just being in the way. I call mom from the library and tell her that it’s not going to happen and I should just come home. I give up. I figure I have enough money to pay the few bills I need next month and to get me home to be closer to my family and friends. I let some of them know that I have a new timeline, that I might be coming home.
I think to myself I’ve failed in finding a job, but I am not a failure. I keep telling myself this, but for the longest time I don’t believe it. Mom calls me back and tells me of jobs in this place and that place. I’m home, without internet, so I go back to the library and check it out. While there I might as well look at Craigslist and CareerBuilder for work. For some reason I hadn’t done that yet. I stuck with Indeed.com the whole time. There are tons of jobs that I hadn’t seen yet. I apply to them all. I’m still emotional, but I’m starting to feel better. Monday I’m supposed to start a Job Search Workshop. I’m not looking forward to it.
January 13th, 2014 – Two e-mails come in asking if I want to have an interview
Yeah. One from a job I applied to on Craigslist and the other from a job on CareerBuilder. Can you believe that? I go to the first interview on Tuesday, the 14th. He asks me how I feel I am with my AutoCAD skills. I tell him that I would consider myself advanced. He then starts to sell the company to me. I’ve never seen this before. My anxiety level plummets. We’re just two regular guys talking about how great this company is and why I should work there. He makes an offer and I ask for two days to consider. I have another interview so why rush?
I go to the next interview and feel that I would fit in very well. I could start this job without any training and make it just fine. Not difficult at all. They seem very interested and ask how I feel about the starting pay. I tell him it’s under what I’ve been offered and what I’ve made in the past. He tells me he’ll let me know later in the day, or the next morning. He like what he sees.
January 16th, 2014 – I’ve heard nothing about this job
I start to get a little anxious. I haven’t heard anything from interview #2. I consider the possibilities and decide that the first job will be better anyways. I will learn more. The benefits are better. I know they want me for sure. I call to let them know that I will accept. I get the voice-mail box and leave a message. I feel good. I have a job. Things are great. But, I don’t hear back from Interview #1. Oh, he’s probably busy. I’ll call again in the morning.
I’m positive that things will work out. I wake up and decided to grab some breakfast to celebrate my new status of being employed. I stop in the parking lot and turn the car off. I make a phone call to make sure interview #1 received my message, and to know when I should come in. Another voice-mail. I tell her I will call later. Things are still okay. I get into the restaurant and order some glorious B’s and G’s. Breakfast is good, really good. I pay the ticket and walk out to my car, patting my pocket to make sure I have the keys. I have no keys. Oh no. They are in neither pocket. They are sitting in the ignition. I pull up Google and find some help. $89 later I have my keys…but I am again downtrodden. Am I living right? Have I done something wrong? Were these companies just leading me on? I still hear nothing.
January 18th, 2014 – THE e-mail comes in
E-mail apologizes for not being more timely. Instructs me to call, so I call. I have a job. Phew!
I am the most humble person in the world. It took every dollar I had before I would know that my life would be okay. More trust and faith would have helped with less nerves throughout the whole ordeal. I am thankful to my Heavenly Father for the lessons and the continued blessings that I receive.
From on top of the world to the most humble person only takes about 140 days, but who’s counting?
3) And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; 4) And patience, experience; and experience, hope: ~ Romans 5: 3-4